In every moment between people that is completely open, pure and free of judgment, new views can emerge and be applied. This reflection (mirror) of each other, this sincere, deep rooted and enriching learning from human-to-human is the optimal form of learning, which I call “co- creative learning for Humanity”. These views, when fully lived by the individual people involved, will form / grow to be one binding force towards a beautiful world for all. – Carole Donkers
I have dedicated 20 years of my life to understand myself as a human being in relation to the context (environment) I live or work in. Context at the level of family, society, organization, continent and the world as a whole. I did this by focusing on the theme ‘learning & development related to context‘. In University, in work and in life. As a result of that focus, I developed the will to continuously move, choosing enriching experiences and learn about myself related to the world around me.
It are the most confronting experiences that brought me closest to who I am and wanted to be (come) in essence. The actual enrichment for me was almost always in times of contrast and counterforce. Putting myself in situations and meeting contrast with who I really was under the surface or behind the identity societal expectations ‘made me’ to develop.
In the time often unconscious, but now I understand that these struggles were all necessary to be who I am now and to act consistent accordingly. I feel more and more like a free human being who moves and supports in situations and in people’s lives, as it feels and adds to both of us.
When I move freely through life and contribute like it feels and adds value in that moment, I am a pure and neutral / non-judgmental source of energy for other human beings. Then I let myself be guided completely by what I think, feel and receive in every moment. Being in and acting on this completely open energy, I always meet the “right” people and situations. The ones that make me a better, richer person and vice versa. My anchor and horizon in these encounters is the full potential and well-being we all carry within us.
I have grown to be a ‘master’ in seeing, feeling and understanding the invisible future. From what can be and could be learned beyond the situation and the time in which two (or more) people meet each other. In this light, life between me and people is a one-time, in-depth encounter completely in the moment, a series of meetings or moving closely together for a while. Until we have learned from each other all we could learn about ourselves and together. And interestingly, the more I got to the essence of myself, the more lasting connections arise in which we move together in time and space and beyond words. This means that our energies develop in the same direction, without us having to see or speak to each other.
My personal driver in every day is the thought to be as open, pure and neutral as possible as a human being. Initially and totally reflected in myself and in all I do. Because that what I share in every moment is who, what and where I am in life and in processes. And who and what I will meet accordingly.
What supports me in this way of living is a strong focus on a continuous connection with my inner guide or voice. I am meeting daily with my inner voice at the point where the non-physical and my physical energy and my inner and the outer source merge with each other. When in this connection, I automatically see, think and act beyond what the world around me defined as reality.
Through continuous and sincere attention to where I am and how I feel in every moment, my life now starts to arise fully as I think, feel and receive it. And that is a wonderful, all-inclusive life in which I am starting to be nourished at a physical, emotional, mental, spiritual and financial level exactly as I want and focus on it.
Because I am 100% aligned and consistent with who I am, where I am in time and space and how I feel, there is hardly a difference between me as a person and a professional. I work and perform as a reflection of who I am. And wherever I am, I attract people to my energy.
In being able to guide people in their own journey towards a prosperous life, I create “learning spaces” in which people feel re-connected to their true and authentic Selves. This is the ground on which “co-creative learning for Humanity” as I define it, can occur.
In every moment between people that is completely open, pure and free of judgment, new views can emerge and be applied. This reflection (mirror) of each other, this sincere, deep rooted and enriching learning from human-to-human is the optimal form of learning, which I call “co- creative learning for Humanity“. These views, when fully lived by the individual people involved, will grow to be one binding towards a beautiful world for all.